I don’t have as much time to write as I’d like, but that’s good because it forces me to condense all the thoughts I have in my mind into something digestible by those who read this rambling.
That being said, I’ve been thinking a lot lately about this crazy world we live in. It’s amazing how much diversity there is and at the same time people seem to have a tendency to automatically reject those who are different than themselves and people who insist on forcing diversity. Two sides of the same coin? I try not to think about it too much….
I’m not trying to ignore it, I’ve just come to accept it. I’m not going to change anybody. I have my opinions and so does everyone else. One huge thing I’ve learned as I’ve gotten older is that my opinions sure have changed a lot over the years. In some ways that’s terrifying and in some ways that’s comforting.
There was a time when I was very forceful (and often negative) in expressing (I called it “sharing”) my opinions. I don’t do that anymore (or at least try not to) because I realized that it’s pretty ridiculous considering my opinions are based on my own experiences and observations and I have a bias based on those and many other things. So, if I’ve ever offended you or made you feel bad, I want to take this moment to offer my sincerest apology. I really mean that.
One of my favorite quotes is: “Opinions are immunity from being told your wrong. Paper, rock, and scissors they all have their pros and cons.” (Reliant K).
Anyway, I’m out of time and I’m rambling. “This is a very complicated case, Maude. You know, a lotta ins, a lotta outs, a lotta what-have-yous. And, uh, a lotta strands to keep in my head, man. Lotta strands in old Duder’s head.” (The Big Lebowski).
So what am I blathering about? I guess it all boils down to this: I think the world would be a better place if we would all stop being so ridiculous! It’s about time we accept that we are different and that’s OK. It’s time we accept that people should be allowed to believe what they want and live how they want to live (provided their choices do not infringe on the rights of others). It’s pretty simple really.
Live and let live. Be at peace. If somebody forgot to put sprinkles on your latte, it’s not the end of the world.